If you keep hurting me I guess I’ll just try to do anything I can to make myself happy again and make them happy so we can stay together and have no problems because I love you

Love yourself and leave…zalalt ki mohabat se izzat ki zindagi bhtr hai

You will always have my heart. Only one I had was you. Best memory ever.

Very deep words. Its a harsh reality but its the truth sometimes.

if u r being hurt again and again
there is no love
So better to move on in a relationship

I stayed in an abusive marriage BC I believe in my vows I made before God. If it is abusive it’s not love it’s abuse. I stayed BC I was afraid of going to hell. I know I can leave now

You chose to leave me. For me to love myself, and now, I don’t know why should I love myself.

It is always hard to make such decisions in life.. ??
Smile nd move on ?

I would have loved to stay. Sadly she decided to leave ?

I had to choose me….because they sure didn’t. Hardest choice I ever had to make.

Love them and stay is my way ! Just wanna see…how far this hurting game can go .

Hurting someone no matter how it’s done .. ISN’T LOVE !!!!! You are better off walking and take lesson on what u don’t deserve and aim for what u do

It’s not so easy to choice an option b/w them because sometime u can’t go or can’t even let them go because of some memories,attachments, feelings, care, respect and the list go on

try saying that after you spent your life since you were 16with one personand you are now 55 ,not as easy said then done and who ever said relationships are easy,if they are easy,well!lol!hope you got your moneies worhtlol!

This speaks too close to home. Sometimes you need to be selfish and think of your own wellbeing as hard as it is. I have trouble leaving because of guilt and the hope for change…..

I stay because even when someone is difficult they deserve love.
When I leave though, I’m gone. It takes alot to hurt me so badly that I cant forgive. But once it happens I can harden my heart against someone I once saw as my whole world.

You cannot love another person if you don’t love yourself… as sad as it to say, you cannot force anyone to love you, if you try and force something what it actually does is drive them farther away… I know for a fact. Don’t take people and love for granted, because you will regret it. Neglect and anger, talking down to belittling, whatever it is

Sometimes it’s hard to leave when you’ve been with them a long time, and you’ve relied on them,can now u no longer have to rely on them and save your money and leave

I think love and stay is best the option until they understand your fillings . May be you are not able to make you worth to them, so keep loving one day they will understand about your filling, at that time if you don’t have besides them what will be result?
if you keep love and stay may you may be you will got her. Patient is most important element in love, thought it’s toughest work love them after hurting, but if your love is true and if you have enough patient you will always rewarded.
Keep loving ?

I choose to love myself, otherwise I will no longer know the difference between respect and worth. Leave before it’s too late. If it’s meant for you…it will always come back.

I did both…. but on the day of my birthday just this sunday he said so much that hurt me more, that im not worth it etc.. if only I could tell the whole story, its heartbreaking I couldnt speak then his last word was K and not even sorry for everything ?

U either to get bitter or get better..isn’t that simple..U hv to deal with it..If u think it’s worth to stay..even though it’s hurt..then stay..If it’s worth to go..then go..But don’t be afraid to make a choice..
Yea..hence..the choice is yours..Make a wise choice there..Juz a piece of advice..?

I had to choose me because my love for her wasn’t enough to make me worth it to her. If I were worth it then she would have stopped lying to me.

Sometimes we have to ask ourselves, “why are we hurting?” Are we making a big deal of some petty things? Are those things worth dwelling on? Are we having a hard time of letting go of a petty issue? Will the issues really matter after a year?