Truth! But still to embrace and compromise it, it took years to come out, its a package of being in a relationship …disappointment is always der if you expect too much…??

So true so sad the things I souldn’t l am the things I am I shouldn’t obla de obla da the apostle Paul & John Lennon

And then have the nerve to blame you. No YOU control you boo!!

The truth! It’s easy to hate, but when you really examine how you are really feeling, it’s more disappointment than anything else. So I don’t hate! I’m just really disappointed and saddened.

Oh, but if it were not for the Grace of God through Jesus Christ Who washes away our sin none could stand.

Can never hate the person I’m in love with not matter what.. I love her .. ?

You can’t change who a person is or what they have done, you can forgive, but you gotta move on so you don’t lose your sanity 🙁

They don’t “turn into it.” He already was. He was just hiding it from you. #realtalk

Sometimes an Ex , just doubles their weight since the divorce, they hate themselves , after 25 years restart the drama and lies to become important or to receive attention, that’s what happened to me!

Yes and people don’t understand that in my relationship

So true. Actions speak louder than words.

Yes this is exactly why i dont try and become intrusive in his business anymore or ask him whos texting, calling much anymore and also dont argue about stupid things like him emailing other gurls online, or texting them cause i know he will do it whether or not i bitch about it anyways…. will continue to do so anyways, i finally dont feel mad anymore i love him so much i just feel disappointed uh huh thats the truth now how i feel.

Truth ! Disappointment is a part of life. You deal with it. Never turn genuine love into hate. Just move on to someone who’s courageous and brave enough to love you. Don’t settle for men who just string you along for months and don’t take action towards showing you how they feel. Some men are just not ready. Some men still want to be a ” bachelor” and test the waters. Never beg a man for attention or love. If it’s not given freely walk away.

Im not hating or disappointed. I just think its sad that someone who I really thought was the BEST person in the world ive ever known in my life could turn out to be the one who HURT me the most.

I hate the last person I loved because she turned into the biggest deceitful cunt ever. Nothing would make me happier than to see her and her kids dead

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From being disappointed, you dont notice that you are slowly becoming a disappointment yourself as a result of the misery,l you’re going through, unaware that you’ve also turned yourself into something you said you were never going to… being stubborn wont do any good, forgive and let live, try again, we all make mistakes, dont settle on that… if you really love one another, nothing can stop you from being together…

You still have to love them unconditionally, but you can not like what they do and protect yourself.

How true, you can not expect people to change who they are, or promise to be. We can only be responsible for the way we run our lives and relationships. If someone you care about has things you don’t like or want. It is better to move on, before someone gets hurt in the end.

Had to love from a distance. With Gods love of course bt totally cant look at them the same way I ever did…. But whts more than forgiveness????? nothin #forgive #forgive #forgive . U’ll never regret it

But because of your great love for that person, you can never leave him/her alone. You are willing to forget and forgive him/her for what s/he has done. You are willing to forgive even if s/he doesn’t deserve it.

HA!!! somebody that lied to me, turned into something they promised they’d never be, and even betrayed me….there is no love anymore. The only way for e to get over them is to HATE THEM WITH EVERY FIBER OF MY EXISTENCE!!! Hate heals sometimes and it’s a very powerful force we should use for certain struggles in our lives!! I wouldn’t say hate forever, for forgivness is peace, for temporary hate until the storm passes on, then forgive, but never forget!