سورة الحج, الآية 73:
يا أيها الناس ضرب مثل فاستمعوا له إن الذين تدعون من دون الله لن يخلقوا ذبابا ولو اجتمعوا له وإن يسلبهم الذباب شيئا لا يستنقذوه منه ضعف الطالب والمطلوب

O mankind! A similitude has been coined, so listen to it (carefully): Verily! Those on whom you call besides Allah, cannot create (even) a fly, even though they combine together for the purpose. And if the fly snatched away a thing from them, they would have no power to release it from the fly. So weak are (both) the seeker and the sought.

What if no one is there…. what do you do?

Yes beginning to feel this more everyday

Then may be where help was /is . And not with captor /s hideing!!##!

I know that’s right!!!!

So a person who works for one winter in antarctica may be deemed worthless? That’s just loverly.

Cant be with me thru my worst?? than u damn sure can have me at my best.

And the ones who are there deserve a prime seating in your life!! 🙂

If they won’t be there for me,I’m done worring over them.

Dang, that is soooooooo true!

The important thing to remember is living up to your words … Showing with action and commitment ?

Hmmm…i guess,this is d way to find out how valuable are u to someone…

It’s tough on you when you’re willing to risk everything for when they need you most when they won’t even put down the phone for you.

Don’t depend too much on anyone in this world. Even your shadow leaves you when you are in darkness if u expect u will be depress

People people. A small reminder. Nobody is perfect. Nobody has ALL there crap 100% together. And if you say you do sorry but your a liar. Everyone has something that either hurts, there working on, recovering from, or even dark secrets skeletons in there closet. What this quote is referring to is the cold hearted person who won’t even listen and is a very selfish person. Stop being so defensive were all human.

It’s purity of the heart that matters, not the external appearence.B’se helping jands are always Better than praying

Often times we say goodbye to the person we love without wanting to.
Though that doesn’t mean that we’ve stopped loving them or We’ve stopped to care.
Sometimes goodbye is a painful way to say I love you..!

I get whats it saying their is always away to be their for someone in some sense. A lot of times you see who your true friends are when your going through stuff you gotta do alone,

What if that someone is going through their own crucial time? What if the person you normally rely on for strength is suffering? Depressed? Anxious? If they aren’t up to the task of being available to you you’ll deem them as useless?

Grow up, communicate, and adapt.

This certainly doesn’t make me feel any better. If I had even known for a second that you were thru trying to work things out with your husband, I would have been there no matter what, it seems I am always the last to know about a lot of things. It really does hurt me and bother me that I missed a chance to be there for you. I hope and pray that never happens again.?

I think people are in our lives all for different reasons and different seasons. If not for one reason or need then for another. And if not for some need of ours, then they are in our life for some need or season of theirs. I have very few friends I turn to in a crises, and to those I do turn to it’s for specific needs/reasons. Some of my friends have been there during a time of crisis, but are no longer. Not because I’ve discarded them, they are precious to me, but because I realize they can no… Read more »

The hardest moment in life is not when we loose something and Tears come out. It is when we know we are loosing something and we are forced to smile..

What if those people have shit going on in their own lives? I’m suffering from my own issues right now, so I can’t be there for my friend going through her problems, as much as I wish I could be. She understands. If you can’t understand that, then you’re not much better