Wow!! As I sit here just thinking prior to reading this, crying about how my life is going to be different and not my normal routine with my other half, I come across this on my newsfeed and it just fits perfectly on how my thoughts have been for the last year!! Crazy how things just pop up.

I typically go in 100% all the way and find myself disappointed. I’ve decided to try this single-alone thing awhile and see how it fits. Then the only one to disappoint me .. is me.

I can truly relate to this post. Im hurting now, but by having God at my side HE wont let me fall, and if i do fall God will catch me. Telling me, Son, I got you, i will never leave your side. AMEN.

Who stupid ass fault is that. If u was told this then why would you put yourself in that situation. That’s makes you anyone extra chromosome as bitch. Don’t be and cuz I’m telling u the truth dumb bitchese

I went in knowingly he did not want what i wanted and i told him it was ok. I imagined myself that if we connected he would feel differently. He is one of the good ones but the one he has is not good for him. but still he doesnt see her that way. i know it sounds stupid but i have so much love and he is such a swt guy with a good heart. so yes this for me was disappointing when i knowingly went in knowing i have nothing to fall back on.

Nah… No disappointing!
Is liberating!
Now you know,
you learn the lesson,
you move on,
you are free
and you’re ready!!
??? ho’oponopono!

Yes!!!!! Love this because at the end of the day you already know it’s either gonna work or not, they’re just playing a game again with your heart or their intentions are not good, or your intuition tells you to be careful!

Well in my case Im also dissapointed. I can’t accept the fact that he can’t even fight for me up to the last minute. He just accepted my decision by ending are relationship. I was the one who always begging for him to come back. So until now i ask myself if he really love me :'(

I can relate, he was 18years older and co worker, been on and off so many times for 3 years and tried to walk away but always went back to help and always get disappointed and upset that i stupidly fell for it over and over again. Hard to walk away when they arent the best for u but tried helping always leaving you worse off. Tried this year to walk fully away and today like always get hurt and disappointed. Feel trapped and he is childish and we have to work together and he usually isnt an adult and… Read more »

Yep that was my story to a tee BUT I’m so so lucky coz now Im with a great man, a man who doesn’t disappoint me, he’s everything he sais he is & who I need him to be. I feel blessed ?

I can relate, but with my MOTHER… My mother of all people… Yah… This could have been written to her, for her and about her…. So incredibly sad… but true… This isn’t only for male/female love relationships.. It could be for ANY KIND of painful, lesson learned relationships… Just saying….

I can relate. The disappointment is not easy to shrug off. It’s an experience I could have done well without. I started to doubt my choices, to question everything about any other man that approached me. I felt let down by myself, because deep down inside of me, I knew it all didn’t add up.

I can definitely relate!! Just fresh out of a year and half relationship of relating to this. And it is very disheartening and it stings.

I can DEFINITELY relate!!! This was actually my most recent relationship! 2 and a half years, finally ended it relatively recently…and I don’t regret it

Man this just hit the nail right on the head… Definitely can relate… I’m not PERFECT but… Wow… I thought wrong… Still shocks me.. Wtf… Mmm well I tried to care… The more I did the more he just pushed me away, then back of coarse I got my hopes up… Now… Wow… Shocking… Best Friend too..

By what’s written here, the only one who is responsible for the disappointment is yourself. You went in with expectations that the other person didn’t promise you. Your own fault.

Well you’ve got that completely wrong; I absolutely fell for you & I wanted to give you the best life that I could but you didn’t want me. When I say absolutely fell for you I really mean it. I haven’t ever felt like that before or since

I can relate . I keep having the same pattern . Only looking at the good but failing to realize the person isn’t right for me. So tired of being disappointed . Think I’ll be single for awhile and reflect on this so next time I don’t make the same mistake.

Fuckin “A” this hits the mark. Never lose yourself to ANYONE! EVER! No matter how hopeful you are, no matter how much you desire or want something whether it be someone or an emotion or a presence. NEVER change the real you. If someone really does care about you, they won’t just say so they’ll actually SHOW you. Their actions will prove themselves. But whatever you do don’t take anyone’s word for it. People have led straight through their teeth to me and i was so hopeful i believed it. Only after all the pain and hurt can i say… Read more »

I’ve been there before. Head up, move on and find what’s actually better for you, and you’ll look back and laugh to yourself about it as a silly idea! The truth is that they never cared about you enough to realize it’s their loss!

Been there, broke up with that and it was like a weight lifted afterwards. Crazy, how we will willingly go into something knowing it’s not right because I think deep down we all get to a point where we crave the affection/attention of anyone “new” knowing it’s not going to end well. Hell, I’m guilty of it. We give it a valiant try and kick ourselves in the asses in the end. But that’s okay, we take it as a lesson learned and a blessing to move along to something exhilarating no longer mundane. It will be okay, just know… Read more »

I can relate…I think anyone who is stuck in a manipulative relationship can

g had the reputation but i believed his reasons why, now i realize he’s either a narcissist or sociopath, but learned my lesson

you knew b4 entering in2 d relationship wit ur ex that it was neva going 2 last bt u still dated them bcoz you were hoping tinz we later turn out fyn bt tinz neva turned out fyn n both of you broke up now u are jst feeling disapointed bcoz u av already let your guard down.

If you know it going in and choose to hope and work for the best that’s fine. Better to know then wonder “what if.” But you can’t place disappointment and not trusting again on them, when the real disappointment is you not listening to yourself in the first place. Learn to trust yourself first before you give it to another person.