I waited 11 years for a man to decide he did want me. It wasnt until I walked away for good that he figured it out. Too late though.

I’m torn about this. My mind says that yes, stop pining for someone who just can’t seem to make up his mind what he wants…but my heart longs for him…ahh, those pesky internal battles.

she left me saying i’m protective, caring and concerned a lot and she cant handle it, because she felt annoying….
then what is love..if caring is annoying ,(

You can’t help who you love, or who you fall in love with. I don’t call it wasting time!!! ❤️

I total agree because everyone had shelf respect if someone not responding and ignoring you then you must leave him on his / her way

I know my result is negative but I will be wasting my whole life for her because I want to see her married life , will she happy in married life with out me ? if she happy then me to and I don’t want to say if she marry me she will happy . I just want to see her happiness . . . .

Time is very precious. If you find someone who can treat you like their equal and not look down on you then consider yourself luck. Not only have you found love you found trust and respect all in the same person. Not all of us are blessed that way.

I applaud the people on here saying that they waited & it eventually worked out…but as someone who JUST came out of a 5-year waiting session, IM OVER IT! I believe in 2 things: 1, distance makes the heart grow fonder & 2, if that person is meant to be in your life, they will. Life is ENTIRELY too damn short to waste it waiting & waiting. AINT NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT! And what eventually ends up happening????? The person who was sure from the get-go builds up the other & then they’re left with NOTHING once the person… Read more »

Nope… sometimes you have to fight for her or him.
Everybody will mess up something during their relationships. Those moments can be viewed as tests.

You don’t pull out the plugs as soon as it gets a little difficult. Unless it’s her or him cheating on you… that’s where it’s over

True!!!Time is of the essence…. Pee or get off the pottie… Either you know or you don’t know… Confusion is a waste of time.

Thats not wasting of time that is just an exmple of true love… Inspite of adverse cndtn to hold on to evrythng…

Live and learn love and hate work your way through this world and trust your mind not your heart course it’s surely will break.

wasted a lot of time years and years begging him but he was wrong telling me ur wrong ,,, loving loyaly and caring ,believe ,trust,love,,happy he does not want all he want is money and beauty so I can call him beast,,

I think a better saying is don’t treat someone as a priority if they are only treating you as an option. Sometimes we give too much, sometimes we love too much and need to pull back to match someone your datings efforts instead of be angered of your unmet expectations…. People move at different paces. But that doesn’t necessarily mean abort mission and leave the relationship. Honestly we all have doubts from time to time, I mean choosing a life partner is one of the most important decisions you will ever make in life.

Sometimes people just need some time to come to grips with all that the journey has taught them. For some it can be overwhelming, & unsettling!

Bullshit! I had a guy who wanted me to be exclusive on the first date when he was basically a stranger to me. Sometimes you have to get to know someone before you can be sure of them.

I am searching for that special someone, that I can show all my love too, and will love me back the same..I have come to know, that settling for someone is not the answer, but the curse.. To walk through life with your soulmate by your side, that is as happy to see and be with you as you are with them, is worth more then all the wealth in the world!!

December 31st will be my 4th anniversary with my wife it has been a wonderful 4 years believe me I would never find nobody that is just as sweet wonderful and just full of love for her rockstar I just have that rock star image and she loves it but most of all when a man doesn’t have anything or never have and he find something that is just as precious more than any gold diamonds or money he will hold on to it for dear life I cannot stand to be away from this woman I was in the… Read more »

6.5 months later and it was the biggest waste of my time. He spent all of our time together on his phone. He said he was just passing time and it was just habit. Just so wrong. Never was sure about our relationship from day 1. Trust your gut get out if you think something doesn’t feel right.

Couldn’t agree more. I recently came out of an almost 4 year relationship where my ex partner told me that they werent sure and felt confused about whether they wanted to be in the relationship or not. Thankfully I have more self-worth than to ever consider begging someone to love me. If someone cannot see my value and how lucky they are to have me, then quite frankly it is not a relationship I want to be in

If you know what you want and they cannot meet your core needs and desires, then you gotta delete them from your phone, repress them from your heart, remove them from your mind & keep it moving even if it means being single again! There’s nothing no matter how good of a person you are or how much you care if they’re are not ready for you! Let them take their hands off someone else’s future!

From the first day I started texting my wife I knew right then that I was going to be with this woman the rest of my life sometimes you just know when your blessings have come and this woman has a beautiful wonderful person she is my Goddess my angel she is my everything if she would ask me to kill someone I would not hesitate at all that is how much I love this woman!

If they aren’t sure about you, then no don’t waste your time. Especially if you know what you want. You can’t change someone’s mind about you.

This is so so true!!. For a relationship to not only work, but to be something so special and amazing, both have to want eachother the same, and have that love in their hearts for one another.

Bull shit. I’m now very very happily married to the love of my life, if he had of thought that we’d never have got together. Sometimes people need time.