Not true… Some people are actually civilized and know how to speak in a respectful manor… We speak of our experiences and mine with my woman are unique…. Kids argue, grown-ups talk and know how to use words of encouragement because we are on the same team… Our peace is very important to us….

Well, the relationship will die depending on how you two handle your arguments. In every single relationship there is an argument about something, how you handle that as individuals and as a couple will determine if it sinks or surpasses it 🙂

The post said “arguement” NOT disagreement. That’s because there’s a distinct difference between the two…

huh? Depends on your meaning of argument. I think if a relationship has good communication and understanding, not a single argument would be had. Rare, yes but not unheard of.

Disagreements, perhaps, but fighting with one another sux!

Yes, you will have an argument from time to time; however, I have had relationships before with hardly any arguments. I’m gonna’ call partial bullcrap on this one. 😉

The key is letting it go when the argument is done!!!!!

When the arguments stop the relationship is dead.

We dont argue…our relationship is alive! We discus…we talk and we communicate…but we dont argue!

I disagree with this. There is no reason to argue if you know how to communicate.

This is something I disagree with because I rarely argue in my relationships…we talk things out…when the arguments started that’s when the relationship started to die…that’s just my opinion

No arguments also mean u respect each others differences and will love them no matter what. Communication is key. Talking problems out instead of being at each others throats is what you do.

Sorry this one I have to disagree with. We have never argued. We however do have discussions but not heated. Life is too short to waist time arguing.

Not true! My husband and i dont argue. We dont agree with everything. But we discuss and compromise. Not argue. And we have a healthy marriage.

I don’t agree with No Arguments. My parents have been married 44 years and they NEVER argue. Arguing is a childish act to me because there is such a thing as Agree to Disagree. But if you are truly Best Friends & Lovers, then you will ALWAYS work it out.

Don’t think so. There are disagreements which don’t lead to arguments. The relationship is still alive.

I totally disagree!!!! My better half and I have been together for over 2 years. Never argued or raised our voices. We discuss but NEVER argue and we are as strong as nails!

How is this a rule?

For those of you replying “my boyfriend this, my fiance that” read this post again after you’ve been married a couple of years. That’s when it’ll make sense. Until then , SHUT THE HELL UP!.
BTW , I’ve been married for 24 years, still arguing, and still in love. Is being able to overcome the arguments that make the relationship last

Or the couple has learned to communicate, so when they have an issue in the relationship they calmly talk about it and they see that yelling at one another is useless.

If you talk about issues and respect each others differences, there is no reason to argue.

Not necessarily, it can also mean that the first argument hasn’t yet occurred. The longer off the first argument, the more the chances it will destroy the relationship. The earlier one sees the other’s flaws and differences, the better they can both overcome them.