I learned or realized what I was doing wrong in our relationship. For a year and a half she told me she was working on it. She told me to leave. What choice did I have? I didn’t. I really wanted to work on our marriage. She obviously didn’t.

Yep that’s what happened to me. I finally realized there was no saving the marriage no matter what I did or said or whatever was not going to change anything. I accepted divorce as the only and final solution.

At some point we hv to give up..No matter what we fight it to the core to keep it..& yet we can’t solve it..That is the last resort that we can make by ending up the relationship as it’s not worth to keep..That is saddest part..?

Love…so simple to do, yet complicated. Children love spontaneously. Adults? They complicate it. That’s sad. Children simply open their hearts and try to be with anyone who plays with them and treat them nice, who makes them laugh and that seems to be enough for them. They’re happy. Adults seem to want more n more and it’s not enough. It’s like that innocence tends to be stripped away once we grow up. Too bad that has to occur, wish it didn’t.

No matter how much u love a person and it doesn’t work out and you try and try and try and it still doesn’t work out you have to let them go even if it hurts you

I tried for two months to try to make things right.I know the feeling of abandonment and being ignored. Just have faith in power of love to come back into your life.

I’ve been there before. But at least I could say at that point that I tried my best. And I’m not the one who quit when the going go too tough.

Because to change the feeling and to forget all the memories are impossible. One thing we have to learn is to let it go. And pray for the best for us and them.

So true. I wanted to work things out. For me it was not a mutual decision. I wanted no part on giving up. Words can’t explain how I feel and how much I love u.

i love my wife, we been in 12yrs relationship and after, argue she decide left me alone.i fight for our marriage but dont like me any more it hurts so much until now i cant move on.

Its either happening or it’s going to, when you’re trying hard to figure out if this relationship is still going on because there’s love or it’s friendship with benefits…

Try this on for size…christmas came not even a cheap card ..valentines nothing..no job yet well dollar store is available. Its the THOUGHT…not how much $$ . But nope nothing.

Wouldnt say give up but has to let it go and pray and hope it comes back stronger and better. You cant throw away love. Its a emotion that is grown and cherished if love is treated as just a word then what was the point of being with someone. Love and let go and pray it comes back. You never know what the other person is truly facing. Within themselves

Very true. This was my ex and me. He stopped and I had no choice but to give up. But, I know that God was with me and helped me to stay strong. I wouldn’t change anything that happened. It all helped me become a better version of myself and who God always wanted me to be.

Reading the comments lets me know I’m not alone. Many people in different places all over shocked by the fact that someone who said “I love you” and may have kissed you goodnight last night are now gone from your life just as the sun rises. And it’s no wonder so many singles are walking around desiring a friendship/companionship/relationship but are not able to engage in one/any because they’re emotionally unavailable, left with a gaping hole in their heart. Not able to heal properly because they have no closure. This also explains the multitude of bad relationships…the ones where people… Read more »

It’s because you’ve been to strong all this time..giving all your patience and understanding things…hoping that you will make it through….its hard to let things slide once you know you deserve something more than what you have given..someone said you will be alone forever because you dont know how to trust…does it make sense?to gain ones trust you must exert effort and act appropriately so that that person will trust you….to trust someone you must see his effort…action speaks louder than words…so when someone finally give up he/she was been so strong all this time….

It’s also one of the reason we detach. When you are happy to see your frend and the response is cold or indifferent ..then it’s no longer frendship .just an associate who happen to meet .when only one tried to connect ,response is vital. If it not there. Then u know what it means ..you don’t matter ..you are an entity. Thermodynamics sets in .

If there is no real love left for one. You should give up. Thinking you can make it happen just because you want it ..is not a real relationship. Why waste time?

For 10 years I fought to keep it together. He just didn’t care enough…until I filed for divorce. Then he wanted to go to counseling. I was done. Tired and done.

Yeah but when it’s a toxic relationship what choice do you have so I walked I had enough respect for myself to get out of a really bad situation otherwise the bitch would have bled me dry

That’s because the lord has something better for you. He aloud thing to happen in our life’s to grow or not, but we can’t understand it because our mind is not always ready for change. Another example is like when people die people can’t understand it because of the unknown, because there is nobody ever came back and said what it was like. The same thing in life when change happen we don’t know what will happen. But by our faith in GOD he will make it to our happiness.

I have loved him through his struggles. I was there every step of the way guiding him towards his success. He finally have a direction in life and he’s now starting to experience success. We just opened an account with his biggest earning on Jan 26 because we want to save up for our future and suddenly he broke up with me just a few days ago. He said I can keep his money. Last week we were so happy together spending the bday of his mom with his entire family. I slept next to him hugging each other that… Read more »

I was just thinking about this today. How i was willing to work on our marriage and he just cheated then walked away. I had no choice but to give up. Sucks bc i was willing to fight for our marriage and family and he wasn’t.

it is heart breaking moment when you still want that person from core of your heart but you cannot do any think but just wait for right time one day he/she will realize lost diamond while counting star because time is best revenge and it will change ..