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Exactly. Having to let her guard down, is baby steps after being with someone who did this to you for 25 years. Only realizing towards the end it was lies. So definitely have trust issues the wall does come down!! Little at a time. But generally just go with your gut instincts. I wish I did then.
You got it twisted, men have trust issues because women lie and cheat and hides stuff. Most deceitful words from a woman are “what he don’t know won’t hurt him” that’s some devil shit….
This is so on point! And I will be honest. This is the first talk you want to have when interested in some one. When someone has been through a rough past relationship. They tend to live by the past. Making it hard for someone that is ready for commitment. So by this if I’m told by a lady that she has been cheated on, played games, disrespected you name it. I’ll be like well it was nice meeting you and that’s the end. I will not waste my time on negativity from someone’s past. It’s not fair to me.… Read more »
I refuse to live this way even though I was lied to and deceived for almost 20 years. Every man is a new man and I cannot allow my past to dictate how I respond to him because that is living in fear.
Don’t be what happened to you, choose who you are.
Don’t let negative life experiences get in the way of forging new, amazing ones ?
Not everyone is the same tho! Not everyone gives broken promises Time patience and believe is the only thing can change that..
This is the same for guys have you ever considered all the men that get done wrong by the same kind of women? It’s not a man or woman that truly separates the actions but the type of people they are!!!
Probably true…
A man can have trust issues, broken promises, heartbreak and be lied to… ever wonder why his guard is up
Precisely… Bcos she knew manies people’s playing games or using her to get favor Frm the one who can give them material thing and perhaps MONEY “BRIBE”.. Telling lies to one true person to black mail him…
I’m so tired of these post only talking about women like they’re the only ones to ever be hurt or they’re the only one that have walls. I watch so many post from men on woman’s feelings and woman on their feelings and woman on other woman feelings. Please realize that yes y’all are precious and y’all do deserve to be protected and loved. Just don’t forget about the good guys who deal with the broken women who lie and play games because they’re messed up in some way. I guess that’s it. Didn’t mean to offend any woman in… Read more »
(girl) do you think I’m pretty? (boy)no (girl) do u want to be with me forever? (boy)no (Girl) would u cry if i walked away? (Boy) no She heard enough and was hurt tears ran down her face Boy grabbed her arm:(boy)your not pretty…..your beutiful (boy)i dont want to be with u forever…..i need u forever (boy) i wouldnt cry if u walked away….i would DIE!!! (boy whispers) plzz stay with me (girl whispers) i will… Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they love you Something good will happen to you between 1-4 pm tommorow it could be… Read more »
Maybe, she shouldn’t be doing Too Many, then there won’t be too many of anything to be hurt by….. js we don’t have to date a different person every other week…
Even when he convinces her & she does let her wall down she just gets lied to again… same old same ole… people only know games these days..
If you’re the one who has caused these things but you are doing everything in your power to change and make yourself worthy of the love she has to give, do you think it’s possible for them to lower those walls for you in time?
Only problem with this post is it implies that this is only a men against women problem. I assure you, I’ve been lied to with broken promises and been left broken hearted just as many times as any woman. And yes, I’ve returned the favor a couple times to women who didn’t deserve it in my younger days. But I assure you the end result isn’t always so black and white. “He did this, he did that, he cheated.” Quite often that’s because of behavior in the relationship from both sides that led to the breakdown and the later actions… Read more »
It’s rough because when you have trust issues from your past relationships, it affects the relationships you have now. You end up thinking everyone is going to hurt you in the same way.
True…given my heart and been promised it wouldn’t be broken only to have it shattered to pieces. From now on I don’t my heart away and my walls are up until you prove to me through time that you truly care about me.
Sucks when you let your walls down a little to let someone in and they somehow go right in where it hurts the most, seemingly to help but then, a sucker punch. Literally and figuratively, yeah I’ve lived that. My walls that make up this thick body of mine, and house a wounded spirit that I’m trying to trust in God to mend…
But you must learn to step out from underneath the dark cloud , and don’t miss the opportunity that someone is showing you they care loads
Thats sad, and Breaks my Heart. I knew a woman like that once. What’s the woman who constantly ends everything anytime she feels ? Looks for a reason to leave.
I love when the person saying you have trust issues is the person lying and blaming everyone else for their issues.
Or she will let her guard down and then freak the fuck out because you’re actually owning up to your words and then she’ll backtrack
Women who have been lied to, manipulated, cheated on and toyed with will always be extra cautious & look for red flags. I’m one that is quick to walk away if I’m disrespected & not treated like I’m wanted. Been through enough heartbreak, won’t tolerate more.
I disagree. We’ve all been hurt and broken down at some stage in our lives, but I believe one should have the maturity to identify one’s trust issues, acknowledge them, dig deeper to find the root of these issues, and then resolve them. Yes, we get hurt, but building walls is neither admirable nor sensible. What we should be doing is learn our lessons and move through life wiser.