What about: if both are in love, both gotta making happen. Just saying

true…always hope but never expect!!

I thought it was meant to be, but it turned out that I was severely wrong….

Yea, but sometimes EFFORT is required! Only then you can say you’ve tried all your best. ?

yeah the last 8yrs of my life.. sad I’ve wasted so much time doing exactly as the quote says..

The line women use because they feel like they found something better and are chasing after it.

Maybe you should tell this to my enemies. They are always begging other people to help them over me and plotting and planning my demise.

Untrue. Aside from begging, a relationship can be stressful, needs planning, and when it gets hot and heavy you will sweat.

Keep in mind though that you’re not getting a Ph.D sitting your ass at home though. 🙂

That’s not much of a challenge, what the heck is the fun in that.

If you have to fight for a position in someone’s life ,you did not have one in the first place.

If you know what you’re doing perhaps.
But few people do and some people know even less than they do.
Stress is always a factor where unknown is involved.

So true! You shouldn’t have to force or fight someone to love you.

Yeah, don’t plan, good luck going out to dinner on valentine’s day without a reservation…..

Hope you enjoy eating at Mcdonald’s! lol

but what about the saying “if you want it, go, work and get it?”

Don’t know if I believe in ‘meant to be’ but there has to be some communication and honesty. I cant stand overtalking things to death though when it’s get to know each other time.

In very less percentage, i thought to keep trying probably one day I win her hard. Yes, i also need to prepare for the hardest pain too.

i’m sorry but this is bullshit ? it’s like saying all the people who hope “real real” hard are going to have more success and happiness than others. ? go out and fucking work for what you love. if society making it more difficult stops you then that’s survival of the fittest

Sometimes If you want it you just to go get it. If you want to keep it, go ahead and make the effort. The choice is always yours. You can either change at will (not completely losing yourself) so that you are able to keep him or her or not. It’s like a sacrifice you make for the person you love. And if that person is affected greatly with your love and she/he keeps choosing you too then you know you’re doing good, both of you are choosing each other. If on the other hand after all the efforts and… Read more »

I believe no matter what this isn’t true. I believe even if it’s meant to be there will still be hard times. you’ll still have fights, stress, and all that, but you’ll also be able to get through it and love each other more in the end.

Not true. You must plan in long term relationships. Life will get in the way and you can allow your love to become mundane. Plan time to be together, but don’t stress over it.

Sadly but not 100% true nowdays many men and women play mind fuck games and give mixed siguals with their own emotionless either be all in in relationship or stay single